Reducing Ageism Through Intergenerational Connection

What educators and nonprofits can learn from intergenerational programs like GrandPals

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Updated: February 5, 2026
Reducing Ageism Through Intergenerational Connection

Ageism is one of the most common—and least challenged—forms of bias in society. In schools, nonprofits, and community organizations, it often goes unnamed, even as it shapes policies, programs, and daily interactions.

Ageism refers to stereotypes, prejudice, or discrimination based on age. While it most often targets older adults, it also affects young people when they are dismissed as inexperienced, unreliable, or not ready to lead.

For educators and nonprofits working toward equity, inclusion, and community wellbeing, addressing ageism is not optional—it’s essential.

What Is Ageism?

Ageism influences how people of different generations are perceived, valued, and included. It can appear in subtle or systemic ways, such as:

  • Assuming older adults are disengaged, resistant to change, or technologically incapable
  • Treating young people as passive recipients rather than active contributors
  • Designing programs that separate age groups rather than encouraging connection
  • Using language that diminishes people based on age

Because ageism is so normalized, it often goes unrecognized—even by those committed to social justice and inclusion.

Why Ageism Matters for Educators and Nonprofits

Ageism directly undermines many of the goals educators and nonprofits work toward every day.

Unchecked age-based bias can:

  • Reinforce stereotypes that limit student empathy and social development
  • Increase social isolation among older adults
  • Weaken community cohesion and trust
  • Reduce opportunities for meaningful civic participation across generations

In educational settings, ageism can prevent students from seeing older adults as valuable sources of knowledge, experience, and perspective. In nonprofit and community contexts, it can lead to siloed services that miss opportunities for deeper, more sustainable impact.

Addressing ageism helps create learning environments and communities that are more inclusive, connected, and resilient.

How Ageism Becomes Invisible

Ageism creates invisible barriers that limit how we see, learn from, and relate to one another across generations.
Ageism creates invisible barriers that limit how we see, learn from, and relate to one another across generations.

Ageism often operates quietly. Many people internalize age-based stereotypes long before they are aware of them.

Common phrases like:

  • “You’re too young to understand.”
  • “They’re set in their ways.”
  • “Good for your age.”

may seem harmless, but they reinforce the idea that age determines ability, relevance, or worth.

For educators and nonprofit leaders, recognizing these assumptions—especially when designing programs, curriculum, or services—is a critical first step toward change.

Intergenerational Programs as a Solution to Ageism

One of the most effective ways to reduce ageism is through intergenerational programs—intentional initiatives that bring people of different generations together for sustained, meaningful interaction.

Research and practice show that intergenerational programming helps:

  • Reduce age-based stereotypes through relationship-building
  • Strengthen empathy, communication, and social-emotional learning
  • Increase older adults’ sense of purpose and belonging
  • Foster mutual respect and understanding across generations
  • Build stronger, more connected communities

Unlike one-time events, effective intergenerational programs are structured to support ongoing interaction, reflection, and shared learning.

GrandPals: An Intergenerational Program for Schools and Nonprofits

GrandPals is an intergenerational program designed to support educators, schools, and nonprofit organizations in addressing ageism through storytelling and connection.

GrandPals connects elementary school students with older adults (age 55+) through a series of guided, weekly conversations. Over multiple sessions, participants explore life themes such as childhood, learning, work, family, and travel, building authentic relationships along the way.

How GrandPals Helps Address Ageism

1. Reducing Stereotypes Through Relationships
Repeated, meaningful conversations allow students and older adults to see one another as individuals rather than age-based assumptions.

2. Supporting Social-Emotional Learning (SEL)
The program naturally builds skills such as active listening, empathy, perspective-taking, and respectful communication—key outcomes for educators.

3. Reducing Social Isolation Among Older Adults
For nonprofits and community partners, GrandPals creates consistent opportunities for connection, helping combat loneliness and isolation.

4. Aligning With Equity and Inclusion Goals
By recognizing age as an important dimension of diversity, intergenerational programs support broader equity, inclusion, and community wellbeing initiatives.

Because GrandPals is structured, guided, and relationship-focused, it works well in schools, libraries, and nonprofit settings.

What Educators and Nonprofits Can Do Next

Intentional program design brings generations together in shared spaces where learning, contribution, and relationship flow both ways.
Intentional program design brings generations together in shared spaces where learning, contribution, and relationship flow both ways.

Challenging ageism does not require starting from scratch. Meaningful change begins with intentional choices:

  • Design programs that bring generations together
  • Use age-inclusive language in classrooms and communications
  • Value lived experience alongside academic or professional credentials
  • Partner with organizations that specialize in intergenerational programming

These actions help create environments where people of all ages feel respected and included.

Moving Toward Age-Inclusive Communities

Ageism limits individuals and communities alike. When educators and nonprofits take active steps to address it, they help build a future where people of all ages are seen, heard, and valued.

Intergenerational programs like GrandPals demonstrate what is possible when generations connect—not as helpers and recipients, but as equals learning from one another.

A future beyond ageism is one where age is not a barrier, but a source of insight, connection, and shared humanity.

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